Monday, June 3, 2013

Artist Carol Hounsell Presents 'Through The Eyes Of A Child' at Fuggles Art Gallery, Bridport.





An interesting exhibition by my friend, the artist Carol Hounsell
"Guest Artists:
We will have a different Guest Artist (or maybe more than one) from the first of each month so that the Gallery will always have something new to interest visitors.  Please see the Guest Artists pages for details.

A very warm welcome was given to Carol who brought us an insight into her childhood and particularly the influence that her Grandfather had upon her. His watercolours and cartoons were quite charming. Equally charming were Carol’s images of both Grandpa and her daughters. Carol’s intense love for her family and the legacy which they gave to her, and which she will pass on to the next generation, was evident to viewers of her work. Also her delightful sense of fun and joy at what this world has offered her.
Her background includes serious illness which, thankfully, she overcame. This has had a profound influence on her outlook on life and, consequently, on her varied and numerous pieces of artwork.
We know from your remarks that those of you who visited thoroughly enjoyed the experience."
If you are interested in discovering more about Carol's work or in asking her to undertake private commissions, she may be contacted at: http://carolhounsellartist.co.uk/



Saturday, March 2, 2013

Open University A150 - Dickens' Hard Times


I'm reading Hard Times as part of my Open University A150 course, and really enjoying it. I never liked Dickens' work before but this novel, though it seems a very 'easy read' is extremely interesting in its use of language.

The narrator here is often polemical, satirical and downright bombastic when he is not being - by modern standards - somewhat over-sentimental. 
Nevertheless the language is dense and clever, and it seems to me extremely modern in tone. While at its most obvious level it is a rant about the terrible effects on society when those in control have an over-dependence on statistics and 'Facts', and the urgent and essential need for scope for the imagination in order to be truly human, I think it reveals much more about the tortured personality of Dickens himself. How amazingly 'modern' he was! How clever! But also how great was his own need to control all those in his own life, especially women. Not necessarily a likeable man underneath all his external charm, but certainly fascinating.

I have become intrigued by his personal story and am in the process of reading Peter Ackroyd's Biography of the writer, and this has given me a useful insight into Dickens' approach to writing, and also to his life as a public figure during the most dynamic years of the C19th. I thoroughly recommend Ackroyd's biography!

We urgently need the Holy Spirit: pray for the Conclave.


Robes awaiting the new Pope


"Our next pope has big shoes to fill as did Pope Benedict when he succeeded Pope John Paul II. Let us pray for the College of Cardinals, that under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit they will choose for us a worthy successor well equipped to address the complex challenges we face in the world today." 

 Bishop Anthony B. Taylor, Feb. 11, 2013, following the resignation of Pope Benedict XVI
http://www.dolr.org/bishop/papaltransition.php

Monday, February 25, 2013

How we will miss you, dear Holy Father!


What a lot has happened since I last posted here. I felt totally bereft when I heard the announcement that our Holy Father, Pope Benedict has resigned. Now we are awaiting the election of a new Pope. 

But I know that this is not a step he would have taken lightly, this good and holy Pope, a dearly loved father to those of us who loved him. The Holy Spirit has led, and is leading, him on and I know that I am not alone in praying for his intentions and welfare.

May the Lord go with you, dear Pope Benedict. You will always live in our hearts and prayers! 

Lord Jesus, shelter our Holy Father the Pope under the protection of Your Sacred Heart. Be his light, his strength and his consolation.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Lent: a chance to practice Mortification of imagination, memory and intelligence?


If you are like me, Lent always catches you unawares. I rarely plan in advance, and so Lent becomes a re-run of the usual old routine of the 'No sweets' exercise that I have practiced since childhood. Not that there is anything intrinsically wrong with that. I can tell you from experience that for those of us with a sweet tooth, going without our normal chocolate fix does take some effort and endurance. And of course, anything that we 'offer up' as a gift to God, especially the self-discipline which exercises the muscles of our spiritual Will, will be a source of Grace. But is it enough?

If, as seems likely, we are entering a time when Christianity comes under attack, when it is socially frowned on, or mocked, or verbally attacked; if as believers, we are regarded as bigots, or as having lost all intellectual credibility, or even social deviants, can we honestly put our hands on our hearts and say that we are certain we will remain faithful to our Faith when the chips are down? Would we be willing to face prison or worse rather than betray it?

I would like to say with total confidence that I would - but I know that I can be very weak in situations when I should be strong, and I am totally dependant on  God's Grace if I am to remain strong. Of course, God will not let us down if we call to Him. But surely He expects us to help ourselves in those areas where the responsibility is ours. If we are accustomed to always choosing the easy way in life, of being so 'chilled out' that our spiritual muscles are as flabby as our physical ones, then how will we manage to find the energy to respond to attacks and challenges? But we all have to start small, so Lent is a marvellous opportunity to get some practice in.

Look at the Saints, most of whom practiced spiritual self-discipline - what used to be called 'mortification'. For those who never heard of this, the following excerpts from an article from the Marian Catechists is very helpful. It explains the practice and gives some very useful ideas which we can develop through the Lenten season. And, who knows, maybe we will make these practices a regular part of our lives.

 

Seeking Sanctification Through the Practice of Mortification

by Father Roger J. Scheckel
In Father John A. Hardon’s Basic Catholic Catechism Course, Lesson 9, Question 83, it is asked: “In order to control our desires we need, 
1) the grace of God, 
2) to use our will power, 
3) to mortify ourselves. 
As all Marian Catechists know, the correct answer is, 3) to mortify ourselves.”....

... In the explanation of his answer, Fr. Hardon underscores the spiritual truth that “without mortification of the senses, or the cooperation of our wills with the will of God, our desires will remain unruly.” Mortification is not for a few special souls but is a requirement for anyone who seeks to advance in the life of holiness. 

The practice of mortification is promoted and defended in the magisterial teaching of the Church. Blessed Pope John XXIII in his encyclicalPaenitentiam Agere, promulgated on July 1, 1962 wrote: “…the faithful must also be encouraged to do outward acts of penance, both to keep their bodies under the strict control of reason and faith and to make amends for their own and other people’s sins. …It is right, too, to seek example and inspiration from the great Saints of the Church. Pure as they were, they inflicted such mortifications upon themselves as to leave us almost aghast with admiration. And as we contemplate their saintly heroism, shall not we be moved by God’s grace to impose on ourselves some voluntary sufferings and deprivations, we whose consciences are perhaps weighed down by so heavy a burden of guilt?”
Pope John Paul II in his Apostolic Letter, Salvici Doloris sets forth a profound presentation on the matter of pain and suffering. I commend it to all Marian Catechists for your spiritual reading and meditation. He states: “It is suffering, more than anything else, which clears the way for the grace which transforms human souls. Suffering, more than anything else makes present in the history of humanity the powers of the Redemption.”
The Catechism of the Catholic Church, in paragraph 2015 associates progress in the spiritual life with the practice of mortification: “The way of perfection passes by way of the Cross. There is no holiness without renunciation and spiritual battle. Spiritual progress entails the ascesis and mortification that gradually lead to living in the peace and joy of the Beatitudes.”
In paragraph 1430, the Catechism sets forth the truth that Jesus’ call to conversion does not consist first of outward works, “sackcloth and ashes,” but rather “the conversion of the heart, interior conversion,” then it goes on to state: “however, interior conversion urges expression in visible signs, gestures and works of penance.” 
The point made in this paragraph of the Catechism is significant as we consider mortification. Mortification is a good that is relative to a higher purpose or end, namely the pursuit of holiness. Pain or suffering in and of itself is a physical evil, one of the consequences of humanity’s fall from grace; however, when suffering or pain is accepted in faith it can be redemptive and a source of sanctification. This is made possible by virtue of the hypostatic union wherein the divine and eternal Logos united Himself with our fallen human nature. Jesus assumes into His divine person everything that is human (except for sin), including the penalty for sin, i.e., pain and suffering unto death. Jesus accepted suffering freely and willingly, that which was unjustly imposed upon Him through the sin of particular individuals, e.g., the Roman guards and Pontius Pilate, as well as that which was constitutive to a human nature that had fallen from grace.
Suffering that happens to us and suffering that we allow to happen, when accepted in faith and united with Christ’s redemptive suffering contributes to our own redemption and sanctification as well as that of others.
To understand mortification in more practical terms and how it might be incorporated into the spiritual life of a Marian Catechist begins with the two-fold manifestation already mentioned: suffering that happens to us, what is known as passive mortification, and suffering we allow to happen, known as active mortification.
Passive mortifications come in various forms, but they are not the sufferings we experience from having sinned, e.g., suffering a hangover after being intoxicated. Rather, they come to us unsolicited, the consequence of living in a world that has fallen from the grace of God. Passive mortifications can be grave, for example, sickness or injury, the death of a loved one, losing one’s employment. For the most part, passive mortifications come to us in smaller and less severe versions such as a difficult boss or co-worker, a spouse who from time to time is insensitive and uncaring or children who are demanding and unappreciative.
St. Jose Marie Escriva, the founder of the Opus Dei Prelature often pointed out that our daily life and work provide significant opportunities to experience passive mortifications, primarily through petty annoyances like an unexpected change in plans, instruments or tools that fail us, the discomfort caused us by the weather being to hot or cold. When these small crosses are embraced generously and courageously they help us to grow in holiness.
Pope Paul VI spoke eloquently about carrying these kinds of daily crosses in his March 24, 1967 Address: “To carry one’s cross is something great. Great….It means facing up to life courageously, without weakness or meanness. It means that we turn into moral energy those difficulties which will never be lacking in our existence; it means understanding human sorrow; and finally, it means knowing really how to love.”
To avoid the many crosses that come unsolicited to our lives each day is to avoid the possibility that God makes available to us to become saints.
Mortifications that we propose to ourselves, known as active mortifications are encouraged but include certain cautions. Prudence must always be exercised when engaging in active mortifications. Active mortifications of a severe nature, e.g., flagellation, scourging, the wearing of hair shirts (cilice), ropes and chains worn around the waist or leg and long fasts are only to be done with the guidance of a spiritual director. Under no circumstances should a scrupulous person consider carrying out active mortifications. Also, to practice bodily mortification for pleasure is a sin.
For the most part active mortifications that are not severe can be exercised repeatedly throughout the day. Examples would be: punctuality—to arise from bed immediately in the morning, to be on time for work and returning punctually after a break, to not leave a task undone because it is difficult to bring to completion. Most importantly concerning punctuality is to maintain definite times for prayer throughout the day. We must avoid praying only “when we feel like it” or “when we have time for it.” We should set times for prayer within our day and keep to them. To deny oneself sleep in order to maintain a vigil of prayer, especially before the Blessed Sacrament, is a laudatory practice of active mortification.
Other examples would be to smile and be joyful even though your day or situation has been and continues to be difficult, to remain silent and charitable when you are being criticized without a good reason, to participate in conversation with those who are boring or overbearing, overlooking those irritating details of the people with whom we live and giving up some comfort that we have come to cherish.
We should also actively mortify our imagination, our memory and our intelligence. A very good description of these mortifications is found in: In Conversation With God, by Francis Fernandez, Scepter Press, Vol. II, 3.3.
…[M]ortification of the imagination—avoiding that interior monologue in which fantasy runs wild, by trying to turn it into a dialogue with God, present in our soul in grace. We try to put a restraining check on that tendency of ours to go over and over some little happening in the course of which we have come off badly. No doubt we have felt slighted, and have made much of an injury to our self-esteem, caused to us quite unintentionally. If we don’t apply the brake in time, our conceit and pride will cause us to overbalance until we lose our peace and presence of God.
Mortification of the memory—avoiding useless recollections which make us waste time and which could lead us into more serious temptations.
Mortification of the intelligence—so as to put it squarely to the business of concentrating on our own duty at this moment and, also, on many occasions of surrendering our own judgment so as to live humility and charity with others in a better way.”
Finally, it needs to be pointed out that to realize the spiritual growth and benefit that results from active and passive mortifications does not require that we carry them out with a conscious intention of uniting each one to Christ’s redemptive suffering at the time they are done. To do so, would be continually distracting and make our daily work almost impossible. Our daily mortifications will be united to Christ’s redemptive work by virtue our having made our Morning Offering, “… I offer to you my prayers, works, joys and sufferings …”
Those mortifications that are most pleasing to God are those that involve being more charitable to our neighbor, more dedicated to the work of the Church, and those that help us to be more faithful in carrying out the obligations that are necessary to our state in life. As Marian Catechists, let us be brave and prudent in seeking sanctification through the practice of mortification.
Originally published in The Tilma, Fall 2006

Catholics, urgent action required now to defend Marriage as a Sacrament!



The Bishops' Conference of England and Wales
The government has published the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Billwhich, if passed, will fundamentally alter the meaning of marriage.
We urge you to ‘Speak Out for Marriage’ and defend the definition that has played a fundamental role in society for centuries.
The most effective way of defending marriage at this point is by contacting your local MP in order to make your views known.
The Catholic Bishops’ Conference has launched a postcard campaign entitled ‘Speak Out for Marriage’. Postcards should be available in every Catholic Church in England and Wales by Saturday 26 January.
All you have to do is write the name of your MP on the front, your name and address on the back, affix a stamp and pop it in the post.
Alternatively we encourage you to write personally to your MP. There are a few guiding points below if you need them.
It is particularly important at this time that all MPs are made aware of the strength of feeling among their own constituents on this issue. We must ‘Speak Out for Marriage’.

What if I don't know the name of my MP?


The parliament.uk website has a 'Find your MP' search page. Just enter your town, city or post code and you should be given the correct name and contact details.
Click the link to 'Find your MP'.

Please send a ‘Speak Out for Marriage’ Postcard



The Catholic Bishops’ Conference has launched a postcard campaign entitled ‘Speak Out for Marriage’. Postcards should be available in every Catholic Church in England and Wales by Saturday 26 January. We urge you to send one to your MP and pass a few on to any friends or family who also wish to ‘Speak Out for Marriage’.
All you have to do is:
- Write the name of your MP on the front
- Write your name and address on the back
- Affix a stamp
- Pop the postcard in the post
Postcard to MPs 110.97 kB

Text of the postcard

Dear Member of Parliament,
As a concerned constituent I urge you to vote against the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill.
  • Marriage between a man and a woman is the foundation of the family and provides the best circumstances in which to raise the next generation.
  • This is why society has recognised marriage as having an identity distinct from any other relationship, however much love or commitment may be involved; marriage is about the common good.
  • No mainstream political party promised such a radical change in its last election manifesto. There is therefore no mandate for it.
Please vote against it and let me know your views.
Alternatively please write personally to your MP
Personally written letters or emails from constituents are a very effective way of influencing MPs.
Postal Address:
MP for [your town/city/constituency e.g. Gloucester]
House of Commons
London
SW1A 0AA
Again, you can find your MP’s name from local information or the 

Points to make

The law helps to shape and form social and cultural values. A change in the law would gradually and inevitably transform society’s understanding of the purpose of marriage.
The Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill will:
  • Change the meaning of marriage for everyone.
  • Break the fundamental connection between marriage and child-bearing.
  • Disregard the importance of male and female complementarity and creativity.
  • Reduce the meaning of marriage solely to the commitment of the two people involved.
  • Impact religious freedom.
  • Have numerous unintended consequences, for example for schools, in the workplace, in one’s personal life, for inter-faith relations, and many other areas.
The British public, as a whole, did not seek this change. None of the mainstream political parties promised it in their last election manifestos. Nor when the government launched its consultation did it ask whether the law should be changed; instead it asked how the law should be changed.
In publishing this Bill the Government has ignored the views of over 626,000 people who signed a petition opposing the change, and the submissions of many others to the consultation. In its response to the consultation, the Government even chose to ignore many of the findings therein.
There is no mandate for this change and the government appears to be rushing the Bill through Parliament against the strongly held views of the public, and without pausing to properly think about the consequences of such a change.
This is a major constitutional change and the British public should and must be consulted. We must make our views known to our MPs and ‘Speak Out for Marriage’.

Finally

Please think and pray
Please act now
Please help preserve the meaning of marriage for future generations

Friday, January 18, 2013

Stop Reading and Start Doing!



This is my second motivational post - directed mainly to myself. I need to declutter and get organised. My problem is that I love books, and I love reading, and too often I turn to my reading before doing other things that need to be done. As a result I am always 'going to' do things, but they never actually get done. Starting now [how many times have I said that before!] I am going to start focusing on the process of living rather than hurrying through tasks just so that they can finish quickly. 

I am always fascinated by the beautiful work of the new artisans who are appearing. Young - and not so young - individuals who are relearning the old crafts and becoming experts in so many crafts, not only the 'bigger' ones, but also the more esoteric: 


Think of the patience, the concentration needed for this, and the beauty of the end result. The time taken to do the job is whatever time is needed to do it well. There is no question of 'just getting it done'. Surely we should try to live like that when we can. Of course it is often not possible in a busy life, but maybe we could create pockets of serenity and artisan skill in many areas of our home lives at least. Slow living when we can do it must be the answer to our tendency to superficiality and addiction to speed. So watch this space to see if I manage to sustain my good intentions!

Here is another little post I found from a Keri Murphy website which I have included to kickstart my year:

"In this day and age of social media, e-zines and enough self-help books to absorb the oil spill, it becomes incredibly easy to get tied up in reading about the life you want instead of LIVING IT. Of course, there is a great deal of knowledge to be gained by such experts and stories but at some point one has to TAKE ACTION!
If you don’t know where to start, that’s OK. The most difficult part in doing anything is usually just getting it off the ground. I have always found that once I put the intention out there that I am going to do or create “something”, I then start attracting the right people and things to make it happen. To this day, this constantly amazes me! Trust me, there are still plenty of days I find myself spinning around the office with no clue as to what to do next or how I am going to get there. It is just as easy for me to get encapsulated in the reading and research. It is during those moments that I take time to re-focus and examine my plan.
A plan for me is simply a rough map of where I am going, what I want to accomplish and how I plan to do it. Like most maps, it does not include the major traffic jams, potholes and detours…but it does keep me focused on where I am going. Any destination without a map is a whole lot harder to get to. It is so important not to lose site of where it is you are heading. However, at some point you have to put down the map and drive. (I know – enough metaphors)
So put down the books, log-off your computer and start LIVING the life you want!
Thoughts + Action = RESULTS!